We
as men, love women, it’s in our blood. There are a lot of things that
we find appealing in women but, it’s only natural that there are some
things about women that we find even more attractive. Because men are
simple creatures, certain things appeal to all of us, similar to how
certain things about us men, appeal to you.
For example, no women on this earth will say that chivalry isn’t
attractive. So, if you want to have that extra edge in front of other
ladies, pay close attention to this article. These are simple things and
it’s really easy to apply them in your everyday life. By knowing what a
man finds attractive in a woman it will become easy for you to attract
any man you like. Just make sure you don’t let the new
You see, men are very visual and simple creatures, for us, attraction
and infatuation happens very quickly, we don’t need to know a lot about
you in order to become attracted. Basically, it’s all down to your
first impression. It’s also true that in time, this changes and our
appreciation for you will be at a much deeper level but for starters
here are the things that catch our eyes:
1. A cheerful woman
Nothing turns a man off more than a depressed and mean attitude. If
you want to get that extra attention make sure you look cheerful because
a flirty giggle and a cheerful attitude can quickly melt any man’s
heart.
I agree that it’s not always easy to have such an attitude but if you
can think about the happier side of life, all the time, this will
happen naturally. It’s the same for you isn’t it? Would you date a guy
that hates his life and is genuinely miserable? Probably not, so think
about this next time you go out.
2. A well dressed, good looking woman
Yes, we men are attracted by looks, you knew it, I said it and it’s
the truth. But do not worry because this doesn’t mean you have to
undergo plastic surgery…
Dressing well and looking good are things that you can immediately
change. I’m not going to give any lessons on fashion as I’m probably not
the right person to do so however, caring about what you put on and the
way you apply some make-up can be detrimental when it comes to
attracting men.
Just focus on dressing well and feeling good about yourself. If you
feel good about how you look then the people around you will feel the
same way. You don’t have to wear flashy color clothes or anything like
that, just be confident, have well fitted clothes and use a little bit
of perfume and you’ll be attracting some males in no time.
3. A flirty woman
There’s nothing like a woman that can flirt back. We know that in
order to attract a woman we have to flirt. Sadly, often times they don’t
flirt back but…when they do…it’s absolutely amazing. Flirting back puts
you in a very strong WOMANLY position, not only are getting in control
but also you are acting like a woman. A womanly woman is absolutely
infatuating for any man on this planet.
What do you need to do? Simple things like curling your lips or
biting them slightly, raising your eyebrows when you make a smart
remark, jiggling at our jokes, being genuinely interested in what we say
– these sort of things. If you can’t yet master this subtle art, try
looking at yourself in the mirror and exercise there. It may seem
awkward at first but it will help you get the hand of things fairly
quickly.
4. Show us some skin
Now this isn’t a guide on how to be slutty however, that little bit
of extra skin turns our heads in an instant. Too much skin is a cry for
attention and men know it but if you play it subtle – It will work a lot
better.
A shirt or a tee that ends just right around where your jeans start
or a perfectly fitting top with a wider neck that shows a bit but yet
needs a bit of craning to get a peep is just the perfect combination. We
love those nearly-there peeks and it drives us crazy.
5. A seductive voice
Again, this isn’t about changing your voice but using it correctly.
There are little things in life that make the hair on a man’s back raise
with excitement and a woman’s voice is one of them. Mastering the art
of the seductive voice takes time so don’t focus on it too much.
Men are turned off by high pitched glass shattering squeals that most
women use when they’re surprised or ecstatic with joy. A low and soft
voice is obviously more attractive. Lucky for you, it’s actually not
that hard to speak in a low, softer tone without seeming like you’re
trying too hard. Exercise your new found talent on the phone but don’t
blame me if the guy on the other line starts to get flirty.
6. A Damsel In Distress
Maybe the term damsel in distress is too much for this but you get
the idea, a woman in need. This may actually be a man’s dream, to help
out a woman in need…as it gives them the perfect opportunity to be A MAN
in front of you.
Men love to feel wanted and then appreciated by women. You might
think that men hate doing errands and stuff like that but we hate it
only when we’re in a long term relationship. At the beginning, we are at
your disposal so use us in any way you want. So, if you know a single
guy, go up to him with a smile on your face and ask him to help you with
something, chances are he’ll jump to your help immediately.
We love women that ask for our help, it just makes us feel manlier
and it gives us the opportunity to have a conversation with you. And
when you thank us with a flirty smile, there’s a good chance we’ll do
anything to get your number.
7. A woman who acknowledges a man’s stare
This is the first step in seduction and probably the most important.
You need to have the ability to acknowledge our stares. Sure, some guys
have a lot of guts and approach you instantly but most guys don’t have
this type of attitude and you need to give them at least the slightest
reason to react.
Many guys will try to get your attention by giving a manly stare.
React to this by looking back at them. You don’t even have to smile
(sure if you do, you give them even more reasons to approach you) but
even just acknowledging their look is enough. You don’t need to do this
with every guy that looks at you, but if he seems decent enough, do it.
Also, you don’t need to marry him or have his babies but this will
give you the chance meet a guy, you can decide later if he’s your type
or not …if no guy comes to you in any given night, how will you ever
find a guy this way? This simple acknowledgement of a stare is the most
important thing you can do if you want to get a guy to notice you and
come in for the approach.
In conclusion, now that you have this knowledge make sure you use it
wisely. There are a lot of women out there that just scream for
attention, don’t be that woman because we men, hate her. Attract us but
show us that you’re different when we approach you, this is how long
term relationships are built.
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